Alliya de Batista and Shawn Finch became the talk of the town couple when both participated in 90 Days Fiance; Love in Paradise Universe. Alliya is a trans woman from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.
On the other hand, Shawn was a Los Angeles hairdresser. Both got public attention because of their age gap, personality histories, and gender identity. Their story got attention; after all these circumstances, they do their best to make their relationship survive under such pressure.
In the reality show they go through different phases of their life, like doubts, drama, emotional vulnerability, and gender identification. All these points make their fans curious to know the answer to this question: Are Alliya and Shawn still together as of 2025?
In this article we will discuss their relationship status, where things started for them and where they are now by looking at all the verified reasons present online because their relationship goes through different challenges on screen and off screen.
As per media reports Alliya and Shawn are still together. They are one of the most loving couple from 90 Days Fiance.
While in 2025 their relationship goes through so many challenges, in an interview Shawn mentioned that they face challenges while in sexual intimacy, though we look so perfect couple in public but we go through serious issues, emotional, and physical persistence.
Relationship Status Explained
They are together because in 2025 they are seen while shopping for groceries which shows that they are a domestic couple. While on Instagram they also show their life in the US. Celebrating their birthday publicly by calling each other baby or darling.
There are no rumors about their separation that have been officially confirmed by any outlets.
How It All Started
2019–2020: Both met each other when they were participating in the show and Shawn mentioned her dynamic sexy and beautiful.
2021: Alliya starts her general transformation and identifies herself as Alliya. They go through relationship dynamics but they still manage to be with each other.
2022: In 2022, both applied for K-1 visas because Alliya wants to move on to the US with Shawn.
Early 2024: When Alliya moved on to Los Angeles they tried to make everything possible for each other and give time to their married life.
Mid 2024–2025: But after that they go through physical intimacy challenges emotional disconnection and a struggle with identity acceptance.
June 2025: But in 2025 when both come on an interview on “tell all” where they point out marital and intimacy problems. Alliya’s voice felt so unwanted while Shawn made it clear that their sexual life was not so great.
Mid-2025 (latest reports): And they are still together but fans are doubting whetherwhether they will survive in the future or not.
Latest Public Appearance or Mention
They were last seen together while grocery shopping in West Hollywood which was captured by locals. This shows that they are still together but in June 2025 when they appeared on interviews where Shawn mentioned that they went through intimacy challenges.
But Alliya’s Instagram shows that she lives in the US with Shawn, and they both celebrate each other’s birthdays.
Even though there is no credible source that suggests they are broken up.
Clues from Social Media and Public Life
They come to public events together and there is no breakup announcement publicly. They still mention celebrating each other’s birthdays and calling each other darlings. Social media outlets still mention them as a couple.
All these signs show that they want to make things possible for a long time but who knows what will happen in the future.
Career or Life Developments That Affect the Relationship
Alliya’s Transition and Identity Journey: She faces challenges as a trans woman and pressure emotionally, physically, and socially which adds so much stress to their relationship and both come online.
Shawn’s Identity & Sexuality Conflicts: The report mentions Shawn’s relationship with a man as he goes through a struggle while accepting Alliya’s identity and mentions that they face sexual intimacy challenges.
Public and Media Pressure: As a reality show couple every couple faces challenges when they come into the real world and in their case the stress is so much more because of her identity and huge age gap.
What fans are saying
On Social media platforms like Instagram, Twitter, Reddit, and Fan forums their fans commented like this:
“He isn’t attracted to women. He loves Douglas, not Alliya.”
“He’s gay. This was never going to last.”
On Reddit some fans commented like this:
“Alliya deserves someone who accepts her, nother, not someone who misses a past version.”
Their fans still hope that they might survive for a long term but they have to make an effort for each other.
Overall, their fans show mixed emotions, with some expressing that they want to break up because she deserves someone who accepts her the way she is, not the past version.
What’s next for Alliya & Shawn?
Put Your Effort into Making Things Work
In the future maybe they will go through couples therapy and work on the emotional and physical intimacy rather than just break up because Shawn has to accept her now, not the past version of her.
They Separate Amicably
If both did not make the things work they have to break up because it’s better to let go of things when you feel stressed out. A breakup is better than creating drama while staying with each other.
One or Both Move On
Both may be in the future if they end their relationship both publicly announce the new relationship. Prefer privacy rather than a public relationship.
All the possibilities about their relationship are acceptable in the future because we do not know what happens next but they know what to do for their best.
Conclusion
As in 2025 they are not together until the relationship starts in the show. They go through so many challenges like being a trans woman is always so challenging in our society. Even though they are also from a reality show, it’s really difficult for them to maintain a healthy relationship while facing all the circumstances.
Both tried their best to make things work for them. They go through intimacy problems and Shawn feels struggling to accept her new identity because he knew him as a man and now she is a woman.
On social media they look like a happy couple but go through so many challenges beyond the camera which is clarified by Shawn.
No matter what happened to them next, their fans always support them because in our society trans women are always judged by people.
So stay tuned to know more about their relationship updates in the future.
Hey there! I’m Sandiya Kanwal, currently surviving (and almost graduating!) my last semester of bachelor’s degree life. I’m a big fan of celebrity gossip because, let’s be honest, who doesn’t love a little drama that’s not their own? Writing about stars, scandals, and stories helps me learn something new every day, and yes, it also makes my writing skills shine brighter than a red-carpet smile!
