Alan Takahashi and Kazuto Kasahara got attention because of their presence on the Japanese reality dating show The Boyfriend. This is a BL series in which they collect nine boys together in a green room so they build a romantic connection with each other.
While a 29 year old Alan who is an IT worker by profession, he has outspoken personality.while on the other hand Kazuto Kasahara a 27 year he is chef by profession his personality is quiet and reserved.
Because of their chemistry, their fans want to know the answer to this question: Are Alan and Kazuto still together in 2025?
In this article we will know about their relationship status and how things started for them by looking at all the verified reasons present online.
According to a media outlet it was reported that Alan and Kazuto are not together anymore. The reunion special that was released in 2024 included both men mentioning that after the show they did not officially continue their relationship but remain close friends.
Alan still has a soft side for Kazuto, while Kazuto mentions that he was really thankful for Alan but did not see him as a boyfriend.
Relationship Status Explained
On the show Alan was the one who expressed feelings for Kazuto. While Kazuto gradually attracted to him.
At the show they go on different private dates like hot spring baths and barbecues. And on the overnight date Kazuto was the one who told Alan that his thoughtful and emotional nature attracted him.
How It All Started
Early in 2024: In episode 3 Alan enters the show and instantly feels attracted toward Kazuto, but because of the personality of Kazuto’s seems reserved but in episode 4 Kazuto mentions that he has a crush on someone.
Mid‑Show progress: In episode 5 both go on overnight dates. Alan’s nature is open minded, flirty and that’s why he even offered him a massage. Kazuto enjoyed his emotional side but said that he was not a person who moved toward something so quickly.
Final Episodes: With the time they go on different dates and speak with each other that’s why they build a connection feeling towards him and at the finale they choose each other. Kazuto mentions that they have something special which does not need to be defined but is meaningful. They leave the show together and also clarify things, that it is not the same as it has to be in the green room in the real world.
Reunion special episode: At the reunion special episode Kazuto surprised Alan by saying that he is really grateful for all the kindness and emotional support he gave him in the green room. But I don’t think that the relationship will last long and I am not seeing you as a boyfriend, but a close friend.
After the show ( 2024 – 2025): After the show there are not any verified sources which suggest that they are a couple or not but they mention that they are not boyfriends anymore but remain as close friends.
Latest Public Appearance or Mention
When the special reunion episode was released in August 2024 they mention that after the show they did not continue their relationship but remained as close friends.
In 2025 there are not any reports or sources which confirm that they are romantically together.
Because fans notice their favourites in every small detail fans mention that they still follow each other and comment on each other’s posts occasionally. Which suggests that they are still close friends.
Clues from Social Media and Public Life
At the reunion Kazuto mentioned that he did not see Alan as a boyfriend but as a close friend.
Even though they still follow each other on Instagram and comment on each other’s posts occasionally, there is not any official announcement of their breakup or relationship with each other. They choose their relationship as friends.
Now both are moving on in their lives and focusing on their professional careers. One is a chef and the other is an IT worker.
Career or Life Developments That May Affect Their Relationship
Because of their personality differences it is very hard for them to maintain their relationship. Kazuto was the one who is more cautious about his relationship while on the other hand Alan is emotional but straight forward which is why the relationship does not last long.
Kazuto is a chef and his career is demanding. On the other hand Alan is an IT worker and he goes to different countries because of his own projects. That’s why maybe they did not make their relationship deeper.
What my fans are saying
Their fans show mixed emotions but also accept their decision:
They commented in the Fan forum that:
“They left together, but Kazuto didn’t necessarily want a boyfriend label. It felt honest.”
Some fans are really sad because their bond is so genuine.
“Alan still loves him, but Kazuto seems to have backed off. Reality shows heartbreak”.
Others are really happy that they are still close friends:
“Even if they are not dating I am glad that they stammered close to that’s more real than are showmace”
All this suggests that they broke up but with good intentions, which is better than being together but stressful.
What’s Next for Them?
For Alan,
Alan really loves him. That’s why he mentioned that it does not matter to him if they are dating or being friends because he wants to keep this connection. Their fans really hope that he finds someone who loves him the way he loves the other person. But for now they respect the boundaries of Kazuto
For Kazuto:
Kazuto is really grateful for the friendship and wants to maintain it and he mentions that in the future if he feels a change in his feelings he will honestly talk to him and take their relationship to the next step but for now he wants to take things slow.
Conclusion
The love story of Kazuto and Alan starts when they meet on the Japanese dating show “The Boyfriend” but because of their personality differences their relationship does not last long. One is flirty and open and the other is quiet and reserved. Alan still has feelings for him but Kazuto mentions that he did not see him as more than a friend. This is the best thing because staying in a relationship and feeling depression is better to let go instead of holding things.
Whether they are together or not, their fans really respect their decisions and want them to be successful in their careers.
Hey there! I’m Sandiya Kanwal, currently surviving (and almost graduating!) my last semester of bachelor’s degree life. I’m a big fan of celebrity gossip because, let’s be honest, who doesn’t love a little drama that’s not their own? Writing about stars, scandals, and stories helps me learn something new every day, and yes, it also makes my writing skills shine brighter than a red-carpet smile!
